I think the yaoi one has him geassing the artist to help him... and artist drawing a condom for him to use. The passive thing is only really a problem if people start applying it to his character outside the bedroom, 'cos I can totally buy it when it comes to just the sex part.

I get a replacement housemate soon! Just not yet. He needs to ring and say when he wants to move in, so I can hand over his set of keys.

Okay then! ...I need mind control powers, and a mask.